Honoring Mothers and Mental Health: A Month of Reflection and Compassion
May brings bloomingđflowers, warmerđdays, and two meaningful observances:
Motherâs Day and Mental Health Awareness Month
Itâs a time to reflect on the strength, resilience, and loveđ©·of mothersâand to acknowledge the importance of caring for our mental and emotional well-being.
For many, MotherâsđDay is a joyful celebration. For others, it can stir complex emotionsâgrief, longing, or unresolved pain. Whether youâre a mom, missing your mom, or navigating a complicated relationship, this day can carry a lot. Thatâs why this month is an invitationâto honor both joy and struggle.
To care for others while also caring for ourselves.
I know this personallyâŠ
During the darkest seasons of my addiction and untreated mental health struggles, I was estranged from my mom. We were emotionally disconnected, and I carried a lot of shame, anger, and unmet expectations. Even after I got sober, we had a few years of silence. But once I began healing âonce I got honest, got help, and started doing the inner workâI learned something life-changing: acceptance.
I learned to accept who she is.
And..maybe even more importantly, I learned to accept
who I am in our relationship.
That shift changed everything. Over time, our connection grew strongerânot perfect, but real.
And real is enough.
Grateful to honor my Mom weekly, on a series,
You can follow heređđ»
âMomâs Mondayđ Notesâ
But my healing didnât stop thereâŠ.
I was also estranged from my own daughters as a mother. Addiction and unaddressed trauma created distance, hurt, and silence. That pain is something I will never forget. But with time, consistency, and humility, those relationships have been restored. Iâve learned how to show up as a healthy, present momâand today, weâre walking in graceđand rebuilding trust together.
Thatâs nothing short of a miracle.
Hereâs how we can honor both this month:
1.Celebrateđ„ł the Real Stories of Motherhood
Motherhood isnât just about picture-perfect momentsâitâs about the messy, beautiful, courageous everyday journey. Letâs uplift the real stories of mothers who show up, even when itâs hard. The ones battling anxiety, healing from trauma, or recovering from addiction while still pouring love into their families.
2.Make Space for Griefđand Healing
If Motherâs Day is hard for you, youâre not alone. Journaling your thoughts and emotions can be a powerful step toward healingđ
Thatâs one reason I created the thINK journalâto offer a safe, encouraging space for anyone on a recovery or mental wellness journey to process and grow through writing.
3.Supportđ€Mental Health Conversations
Letâs normalize therapy, support groups, journaling, prayer, restâwhatever helps you stay grounded. Moms especially carry invisible loads; checking in on their mental health is a form of love.
4.Give the Giftđof Presence
A kind word. A shared moment. A handwritten note. Presence often heals more than perfection. You donât have to have the right wordsâyou just have to show up.
This May, letâs celebrate courage.
The courageđȘđ»of mothers. The courageđȘđ»of those facing mental health challenges. The courageđȘđ»to feel, to heal, and to keep going. If you or someone you love needs a tool to process emotions and build self-awareness,
Please check out my guided recovery journal: đđ»
Itâs filled with powerful prompts from My Own Healing Journeyâdesigned to help you write through the hard stuff and reconnect with hope.
To all the mothers, caregivers, and healing heartsâthis month, we see you. We honor you. And we stand with you.
Big Virtual Hugs,
Happy Motherâs đDay and Happy Mental Health Awareness May!
- â€ïž , Amy C.